"When I grow up and get big, I don't wanna be a mama," she told me.
"That's fine. You don't have to be a mama."
"I don't want to have babies in my tummy."
"Well, then, you don't have to," I told her.
"But what if a baby gets in my tummy anyway?"
"It won't. Don't worry. If you don't want to be a mom you don't have to be. You can be whatever you want. But, you might change your mind. I loved having you in my tummy. You would kick my belly every night when I sat down to eat dinner."
"And what'd you do to me?" she asked, perfectly well knowing the answer.
"I'd rub your little bum to calm you down. Alice, why don't you want to be a mama?"
"I don't like how babies get out of the tummy from the vagina."
"I didn't like it either. But you can still be a mama if you want. You don't have to grow the baby in your tummy if you don't want to. You can adopt a baby that needs a mama. Like your Aunts did."
With an upbeat tone she exclaimed, "That's what I'm gonna do. I'm gonna get a baby that already has a name."